tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525280313700424785.post3631216700782758872..comments2023-03-30T08:30:47.735-07:00Comments on The Woven: The Cleansing'Seph Sayershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05849113554747254154noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525280313700424785.post-58281044769638252262014-09-17T16:51:38.980-07:002014-09-17T16:51:38.980-07:00LOL
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LOL <br />No worries! <br />:)<br />'Seph Sayershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05849113554747254154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525280313700424785.post-3045300162610313152014-09-17T08:51:22.448-07:002014-09-17T08:51:22.448-07:00And for getting the Seth instead of the Seph. Gee...And for getting the Seth instead of the Seph. Geesh. Remind me not to comment until I've had my morning tea. Yikes!Zoenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525280313700424785.post-12462593932129939032014-09-17T03:29:58.880-07:002014-09-17T03:29:58.880-07:00Oops on the typos and such. o_OOops on the typos and such. o_OZoenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525280313700424785.post-28132393318128982014-09-17T03:27:31.076-07:002014-09-17T03:27:31.076-07:00Thanks for pointing me to your post Seth. I very ...Thanks for pointing me to your post Seth. I very much relate to it and the questions you ask. <br /><br />This here: "That they cannot see or cannot understand because they cannot, or will not, look at themselves. Lost in their delusions and denial."<br /><br />Yes.<br /><br />That's how I've come to think of it, though I still wrestle with feeling like it is all my fault that they don't understand. That really is a burden I shouldn't carry but it comes in waves, in and out. As time passes it seems the waves are out more often than in but I wonder if really they are mostly in, just unconsciously so. <br /><br />You know, I don't know what I feel. Wait, yes I do. I feel like crap. But mostly because I don't get it. I don't get why it has to be this way. Why don't they see? Why don't they understand? Especially after you've spent oh I don't know, decades upon decades in some cases of giving them the benefit of the doubt, lingering in those relationships, waiting for the proverbial moment where do say finally, that they get it or understand. By the time we leaved or apply <i>The Cleansing</i> what is left of our own compassion, for ourselves. I was bereft of self-compassion. I was broken, poisoned and weak and barely had the strength to walk away. More than anything, total exhaustion.<br /><br />I think compassion is sympathizing and <i>sometimes</i> doing something to alleviate it. We can't in some situations enter in to the alleviation, especially when it's toxic and their is no hope for an antidote.<br /><br />So many thoughts. Again, thank you for sharing it and I know it's going to linger with me as I continue to ponder it all in my own personal situation.Zoehttp://secularwings.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2525280313700424785.post-38248587920629658912013-08-18T10:48:02.149-07:002013-08-18T10:48:02.149-07:00I have other articles about emotional vampires and...I have other articles about emotional vampires and being around people who don't offer back equal to what you offer them. It's not selfish to walk away from those people it's simple self preservation. Why would you continue to associate with people that aren't offering back what they take, that's not really friendship. Good for you! AccordingtoJewelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14677233524380245752noreply@blogger.com